Preparing For Your First Family Photography Session

Let’s Take the Pressure Off

If thinking about a family photo session puts you on edge, take a breath. I’ve had so many clients come to me unsure of how to prepare, wondering if their kids will cooperate, or feeling overwhelmed by what to wear. And I get it. The internet is full of complicated checklists and picture-perfect outfit guides that can make the whole process feel… well, pressure-filled.

But here’s the truth: your family session doesn’t have to be stressful. It can actually feel relaxed, joyful, and connected – the very things you probably want your photos to reflect in the first place.

One of the things I love most about working with new families is that often by the time we meet in person, we feel like old friends. That’s because I genuinely believe in walking with you every step of the way. So whether you’re texting me outfit ideas or asking which blanket to bring, know this: I’ve always got your back.

You’re Allowed to Keep It Simple

I often see clients getting caught in the “what-ifs.” What if the kids don’t behave? What if I feel awkward in front of the camera? What if I forget something important?

Let me gently reassure you: those worries are so common. But they’re also unnecessary.

Once we’ve chosen your location, time, and wardrobe, the rest really can be easy. I’ll guide the session from beginning to end – even if your toddler is melting down or your teen wants nothing to do with photos that day. I’ve worked with people of all ages and energy levels, and together, we’ll make it work in a way that feels genuine and kind.

And if you’re holding onto a dreamy dress you’ve been meaning to wear? Now’s the time to dust it off and bring it to life. You don’t need to shop for something new unless you want to. Let’s work with what makes you feel beautiful and comfortable.

Step-by-Step: Preparing for Your Family Photo Session

1. Plan What to Wear (But Don’t Overthink It)

I send all my clients detailed style guides, Amazon store links, and personal wardrobe suggestions based on what you already own.

• Reach out early with outfit questions – I actually love helping with this part.
• Lay outfits out ahead of time to see how everything flows together.
• Don’t stress about matching – cohesive colors and textures look best.
• Wear something that makes you feel lovely and relaxed.

Bonus tip: That beautiful dress in the back of your closet? This just might be its moment.

2. Let Your Kids Be… Kids

If you’ve got tiny tornadoes or moody teens, you are not alone. I promise.

• We’ll let little ones play when needed and follow their pace.
• I use gentle cues and lots of patience to steer us through.
• Some of those in-between moments – the giggles, the cuddles, even the chaos – often turn out to be the most heartfelt images of all.

Also, please don’t worry if things don’t go “perfectly.” They never do. And that’s the beauty of it.

3. Text Me (Yes, Really)

From outfit ideas to showing me your hallway wall for framing help, I mean it when I say I’m here for you.

• Need advice on shoes? Snap a photo and text me.
• Not sure which session time will work best with nap schedules? Let’s talk.
• Wondering how your haircolor might photograph in golden light? I’ve got thoughts.

Opening up this channel means you can skip the guesswork and enjoy the experience more fully.

4. Choose a Meaningful Location

We’ll decide this together, depending on your family preferences.

Some of my favorite locations in Orange County include wide open fields, soft sand, eucalyptus trees, hidden caves or rolling hills. I’ll guide you to a spot that feels relaxed and reflects your heart.

5. Trust the Process

There’s so much beauty in surrendering the pressure and just being together.

• I’ll pose you gently, with plenty of space to breathe and connect.
• I watch for real moments – the hug between takes, the wind in your child’s hair, the expression you didn’t even know you made.
• This is more than a photo session. It’s a little time capsule of your life together, just as you are.

This Is Truly About More Than Photos

The reason family photography matters is because your time together matters. These little years, these fleeting seasons – they’re all worth remembering.

You don’t have to have it all figured out. You don’t need to perfect your outfits, pose like a model, or convince your kids to behave like angels. You just need to show up. And I’ll take care of the rest.

If you’re preparing for your first session (or just your first with me), I hope this makes the process feel easier, more inviting, and filled with heart. Because that’s what I’m really here to do: honor your story.

Ready to Begin?

If you’ve been thinking about booking a session, or if this is your first time with a professional photographer, I’d love to guide you through a relaxed, meaningful experience that feels just right for your family.

Take a peek at my full session guide or reach out through terialinaphotography.com so we can start chatting. I’m happy to help with everything – and I mean everything – from wardrobe picks to choosing a dreamy spot that fits your story.

You deserve an experience that leaves you smiling long after the photos are taken.

Let’s make it beautiful.